No-one will know your Secret….!

Whilst I was driving home recently I passed a vehicle with a contraption on the side that looked rather like a submarine periscope.  It was facing forwards towards the road and I wondered if it was for taking photos.

This reminded me of a very different gadget that I saw advertised recently which looks just like a Bluetooth headset.  The only difference being that it is designed to pick up sounds and voices up to 15 metres away.  Now whilst it was extolling the virtues of use in theatres and meetings etc, there was also the inference that you could eavesdrop other people’s conversations, hence no-one knowing your secret.

So you could be sitting in a restaurant or coffee shop without even realising that your conversation could be heard, which if you didn’t want it to be (the recent incident of a French and American President comes to mind) could be very embarrassing.  However, a positive spin on this would be to take the opportunity to think about the words that do come out of your mouth.  Are you someone who is always commenting negatively about others or being judgemental about how they look, walk, talk etc.  If so, now might be the time to apply the old adage of “if you can’t say something good about someone, say nothing”.   Not only is it a good discipline to practice but it won’t really matter then whether some nosy parker is using a remote listening device or not!

 

 

The Brick

A friend of mine in the Royal British Legion sent me this and I thought that it was too good to keep to myself.

“A young, successful  executive was travelling down a neighbourhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared.  Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag’s side door!  He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown.  Very angry, he jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car and shouted “What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That’s a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money.. Why  did you do it?”

The young boy was apologetic. “Please, mister….please, I’m sorry but I didn’t know what else to do,” he pleaded. “I threw the brick because no one else would stop…”  With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. ‘It’s my brother” he said “he rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can’t lift him up.” Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, “Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He’s hurt and he’s too heavy for me.”

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat.  He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts.  A quick look told him everything was going to be okay.  “Thank you and may God bless you” the grateful child said to the stranger.  Too shaken up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home…

It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept it there to remind him of this message: ‘Don’t go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!’

 

 

 

The Sun is Always Shining above the Clouds

The sun shining above the clouds

This is a photo I took the other day from the foot of a French garden. In the town and valley below, all that would have been visible above would have been cloud but here above that cloud, the sun was shining brightly and it reminded me of two things.

The first was of how sometimes when a plane has taken off in cloudy weather, after it has climbed through the cloud it suddenly breaks through into dazzling sunshine whilst the cloud below remains like a thick white carpet.

The second is what a good metaphor this is for life.  How easy it is when our lives feel grey and cloudy, to forget that above the cloud the sun is always shining.  Our moods and experiences may come and go but the sun is constant.  Even when the sun has “gone down” and is no longer visible, it is still shining.

It’s something I thought of years ago when I was on a plane journey but didn’t have a camera handy, so it’s lovely to be have been able to take this visual reminder and share it with you.